Snowwhite100's Dagbog, 20 maj 20

Our daughter (stage 4 cancer) is in town for her pet-scan and coming over for dinner today. We will sit in the patio and stay away from each other. My husband, her father, went to the grocery plus the hardware store today, with no gloves as usual. He promised me faithfully he would wash his hands when he got home. After helping to carry in our many groceries and nursery items, he touched many things in the house. As usual, he utterly refused to wash his hands, and I literally begged him. He said no, that's only fear. I asked "what about me?" and he answered, "I don't care about you!". Living in Los Angeles, our little section of town is the highest count in all of Los Angeles County with over 600 active cases in the hospital, so of course, there are lots more around. I know he loves me but is thoughtless often. You'd think he could be careful for our daughter's sake. We are not in phase one yet.

Our daughter had many new bone lesions just back in February, plus she had to cut down to 1/2 dose Chemo because it was affecting her so. But, praise the Lord, nothing lit up this time, so that means there were no new ones and they are being "quiet". She does have a lung inflammation or infection but it didn't light up the scan so they said it wasn't cancer. She had a COVID 19 test this morning because they can't give her any steroids for it if she would happen to be positive.

By the way, he has progressed to using oxygen every night, plus periodically during the day, even at sea level now.
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Enjoy your daughter tonite.... Hope it’s a great evening....my thoughts and prayers are with you....  
20 maj 20 af medlem: Char60
Saying a prayer for you all🙏❣ 
20 maj 20 af medlem: aintgotaname
I’m sorry to hear. I really hope for your daughter’s sake she is safe. 
20 maj 20 af medlem: Skippy2Me
That's very scary. Keeping a good thought for you and your daughter. Hope you had a wonderful visit with her! 
21 maj 20 af medlem: kpwcalories
Glad to see you back to posting, Snowy. Sorry things are still so rough in your life! Hang in there. 
21 maj 20 af medlem: Debbie Cousins
♥️🙏 
21 maj 20 af medlem: jcmama777
She and the entire family are in my prayers.  
21 maj 20 af medlem: BillLoseWeight
Keeping your family in my prayers! 
21 maj 20 af medlem: ZipZ_93
You are in my prayers I'm sad for his insensitivity to your requests in this time I live with a Husband who also does similar unfair things but we carry on - your trust must be in above not in man x 
21 maj 20 af medlem: Fiona Claire
Glad to hear that your daughter doesn’t have new lesions. It’s very frustrating when you are trying to protect everyone, and you are doing it alone. At least he went to get food. Sometimes people are simply stubborn. Put a bottle of soap and water outside, let him wash first.💗💗💗💗💗🌸🌸🌸🌸 
21 maj 20 af medlem: ocean_girl
It is so darn hard to make others - including husbands- do what they should. Make sure your daughter knows that he has not be diligent so that she can take extra precautions including choosing not to visit. Also you could do outside visiting. It is supposed to be a bit safer. Set up lawn chairs the requisite distance and everyone brings their own food/drink to keep extra safe.  
21 maj 20 af medlem: 59Carol
Praying for you and your family. 💖 
21 maj 20 af medlem: salty_mermaid_mama
I'm immune comprised and my husband volunteered to do all shopping and errands etc. cuz he didn't want me out for fear of exposure.That is great but he too doesn't wear a mask. He hates them. He is dilegent about hand washing though.. 
21 maj 20 af medlem: Diana 1234
Sending prayers for healing for your daughter and for comfort for you. Agree with 59Carol, you have so much on your plate. (((((hugs))))) 
21 maj 20 af medlem: kclab
I don’t care about you? How can you even think he LOVES you? Get rid of that jerk. Apparently he “doesn’t care” about his daughter either. 
21 maj 20 af medlem: suzieq_92347
I will keep you, your daughter and family in my prayers. I'm so sorry. Take care and I hope you get to see your daughter soon again. 💗 
21 maj 20 af medlem: Roxy Marie
I will keep you and family in my prayers. ❤ 
21 maj 20 af medlem: jamaicawi
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 
21 maj 20 af medlem: Arkiehuntress
prayers 💜 
21 maj 20 af medlem: katz3
I’m so very sorry to hear of all of this misfortune and tragedy. If it gives you any solace, recent studies have shown that it is very unlikely to get the virus from touching surfaces. Wishing you and your family the best.  
22 maj 20 af medlem: brendasue1

     
 

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